What is Really Important?

"The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field. Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant looking for fine pearls. when he found one of great value, he went away and sold everything he had and bought it." (Matthew 13:44-46)

One thing I am really proud of and grateful for about our family is that we treat each other with acceptance and respect. In different provinces of China, we were taken to look at pearls (sea salt-water pearls vs. river clear-water pearls). Although not everyone (in a party of seven to ten people) was personally interested, we spent time in the stores examining and purchasing pearls for a very special lady in a young man's heart. Nobody complained or mocked. We supported each other.

I was asked to carry the pearls. "It is easier for a woman to carry pearls. They could be yours." The pearls were kept safe in my purse all the way back to the United States. As it turns out, those requests were very wise. I would not be able to sleep if those pearls were lost in one of our suitcases.

What is really important to you?

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